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The Courage to Endure

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Recent tragedies in our world have set me to thinking about the courage to endure. "When Dad died," the young lady remarked, "Mom allowed herself to die along with him. Her body was still alive, of course, but her spirit seemed to shrivel up and disappear." How sad it is when people give up on living before life is really over.  We have a birth date and someday we will have a death date. It is up to us to make the very most of all the dates in between.  Sometimes, going on is the hardest thing to do. It would be much easier to give up and quit trying. Cloistered in an emotional shell, life doesn't hurt so much -- but there's no joy in existing that way.  John F. Kennedy said, "There is, in addition to a courage with which men die, a courage by which men must live." In difficult times, we must possess the courage to live. No matter what happens, we can make the best of it. Annie Dillard, in Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, remarked, "Our bodies are

How to Find a Better Life

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Dr. Maxwell Maltz, an acclaimed plastic surgeon once wrote a best selling book,  New Faces, New Futures,  describing the tremendous changes in individuals' lives after having plastic surgery.  He told many stories about "ugly ducklings" who were given a new life by receiving a new face. Unfortunately, after the publication, Dr. Maltz discovered he had made some serious errors in his book.  A careful study of all his patients revealed that people were generally no more happy with life after a plastic surgery than before.    He found that a face lift did not automatically bring a better life. So, Dr. Maxwell Maltz quite the plastic surgery business and devoted the rest of his life to helping people find inner beauty.  He discovered that true happiness comes from the inside.  It isn't obtained with a new face. This is not a new concept.  The Bible has lots to say about inner joy and peace.  Building a better life is an inside job. Many people miss this po

What's More Important?

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 Your place is not as important as your perspective.  Your position is not as important as your disposition.  Your standing is not as important as your understanding.  Your reputation is not as important as your character.  Your challenges are not as important as your gumption.  Your career is not as important as your family.  Your difficulties are not as important as your determination.  Your money is not as important as your peace of mind.  Your gratification is not as important as your ultimate satisfaction.  Your outer looks are not as important as your inner beauty.  Your impressiveness is not as important as your honesty.  Your success is not as important as your integrity.  Your conditions are not as important as your choices.  Your grades are not as important as your education.  Your pet peeves are not as important as your kindness.  Your preferences are not as important as your respect.  Your coolness is not as important as your authenticity.  Your fear is not as important a