What kind of juice do you have in your tank?
Lawnmowers and cars run on gasoline.
Chainsaws and weed eaters run on a gas/oil mixture.
Sailboats and kites run with the wind.
Campfires run on wood --And you run on one of two kinds of energy: positive or negative (or, more likely, a mixture of both.)
What's the difference between running on positive vs. negative juice?
1. Negative juice is the "default" mode. If you don't deliberately choose the positive path, you'll end up operating in the negative. We are grumpy by nature -- and cheerful by choice. Nobody is positive by accident -- It requires a strong commitment and a new way of thinking.
2. Running on negative juice is easier at first -- but much harder in the long run. Since it is the default mode, you don't have to work at becoming negative -- it just happens! No extra effort is required. However, those who operate with negative energy find that life is much more difficult. Positive energy takes more effort up front -- and less effort all the rest of the way. Guaranteed -- a negative life is harder than a positive life.
3. Positive juice continually refills its own tank. In other words -- this energy creates more energy. Negative juice, on the other hand, is always draining. The tank is continually empty. When you're running in the negative, you will find yourself always tired, burdened and depleted.
4. The biggest difference between positive and negative juice people is the way they think:
Positive juice people think about solutions rather than problems.
They think about their blessings rather than their rights.
They focus on serving others rather than themselves.
They are givers rather than takers.
They talk about what can be done, rather than what can't be accomplished.
They realize that happiness is a choice rather than a reaction.
They are directed by principles rather than situations.
They find the good rather than the faults.
They are encouragers rather than discouragers.
Nobody wants to be a negative person -- but most folks end up that way, because they have not determined to change the course.
Your canoe will not go upstream unless you're willing to paddle!
Here are a few suggestions to help you paddle upstream and fill your emotional tank with positive energy:
1. Intend to be a positive person. Your life will never rise above the level of your intentions. Generally speaking, you become what you intend to be.
2. Surround yourself with positive people. Who is the most positive person you know? See if you can spend some time with that person. Positive people lift and encourage us to be our best.
3. Spend time in prayer and meditation every day. Connecting with God puts everything else in perspective.
4. Read the Bible as well as other inspiring books. Biographies of great people instill hope and inner strength.
5. Listen to "soul filling" music. What type of music fills your soul? How can you build this into your life?
6. Capture your negative thoughts. When these emotional terrorists attack, you need to capture them and hold them as prisoners of war. You can replace old mullings with new, inspiring ideas. The Bible instructs us to take our thoughts captive.
7. Find a 'replenishing" place. Certain places help us to order our hearts. It is good to discover beautiful, inspiring places where we can be refilled.You can become a positive inspiring person if you make the commitment and the effort. Your family and friends will certainly be delighted if you do!