Hit the Nail

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Mark Batterson hit the nail on the head with this one.

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  1. Anonymous2:30 PM

    It is most likely because these 4 had a strong mentor in the church growing up. At least the ones I have talked with that stay close to the Lord in their young adults lives, have had at least one person from the church truly invest in them, especially in their early teen years. Also we need, myself included, to learn how to better communicate love to our young people. Many are receiving love, but it isn't connecting the way it should. This is difficult to watch as a youth pastor. I would recommend the book "The Five Love Languages of Teenagers”, by Gary Chapman. It applies to parents, youthworkers, etc. And it has helped me to see more clearly how Jesus "communicated love", and how we can learn and apply these principles. In parting, we do need to recognize why we are losing the 6 out of 10, but focus and build on how and why we are keeping, and connecting Christ with the 4 that stay close in their walk!

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