Live Forward, Understand Backward
In times of transition, people often wonder, “When will we get back to normal?” The answer to that question is “Never.” Normal is not something you can go back to. Regardless of how comforting the thought may be, you can’t get back to normal. The old normal doesn’t exist. You can only go forward to a new normal. Life is a river. It flows continuously forward, not backward. It changes as it flows. You cannot step into the same river twice. It’s different every time. Our moments and relationships are like that too. We all are changing, growing, moving forward in time. We can’t go back to the way it was. Of course, we can understand our present situation by reflecting on the past. As Winston Churchill said, “The farther backward you look, the further forward you are likely to see.” Pondering the past brings clarity and understanding for the future. We live forwards and understand backwards. A stroll down memory lane recalls experiences both good and bad. We realize...